I’ve heard from lots of people who are worried about not finding the right words or indeed somehow saying the wrong thing. I understand that feeling completely. When I’ve heard from others having a rough time, I’ve so desperately wanted to find the right words to comfort, reassure and give hope. Ultimately though, it’s actually very hard to say the wrong thing. In fact, of all the things to say, I’ve found the worst thing is to say nothing. Searching too long for the right words just ends in silence, however well meant the original intention.